I stared at the grass growing tall in the raised bed in the
corner of my garden and tried to find the motivation to start over. Three years ago, this same raised bed had produced
plump, juicy, red strawberries that my sons would squabble over as they picked
their way through the leaves to find the biggest one. But that was three years
ago, and now, as I stood staring at it, this bed of strawberries looked only
like a patch of weeds, and I had no one to blame but myself.
It’d happened so slowly and so effortlessly. The first
summer, I’d allowed the weeds to move into the edges of the bed, and told
myself that the strawberries would be fine, that there were only a few weeds
and still plenty of strawberry plants mixed among them. The second summer, I’d
allowed a few more weeds to move into the spaces between the strawberry plants,
and as a result, my harvest began to decline. Now, well into the third summer,
I had no strawberry plants left to be seen, and my last harvest had reaped only
a handful of fruit. With feelings of
guilt and regret, I now stared at the strawberry bed, and saw it as a lost
cause. Was it worth saving? Could I ever bring it back to what it once was?
I took a deep breath and pushed my spading fork into the
soil of the bed, lifting the compacted soil with all my might, as the weeds
struggled to hold it together despite my effort. As I lifted the great clod of
dirt, I turned it upside down, then gave it a hefty thump with the back of the
fork. The dirt clod broke apart and the weeds separated. I reached down, pulled the weeds by their
stems, and shook off the remaining dirt, then tossed them into a pile, where
they would wither and die in the sun.
The heat of that August morning was already bearing down on
me, and as I pried each hardened clump of weeds up by their roots, I began to
rapidly lose enthusiasm. Better to just
give up on growing strawberries, I told myself. I could just buy them from the local
strawberry farm nearby and let someone else do this work for me. Or, I could just
cover the raised bed with black plastic and kill everything at once, and then
start over again next spring. Surely
there is nothing worth saving still alive in this raised bed, I thought. My mind
raced with rationalizations in an attempt to avoid the hot and dirty task at
hand. And as my mind wandered, in the
corner of my eye, I caught sight of a strawberry plant, brown and dry, nearly
hidden under the dirt where a weed clod had been. I gingerly pulled the strawberry plant out,
shook the dirt off it, and scraped its rhizome root with my fingernail. It was struggling, but it was alive.
With renewed vigor, I plunged my spading fork back into the
sod and pulled up again, turned over another clump of weeds, and found yet
another dry and brown strawberry plant hidden beneath. I separated the strawberry from the weeds and
repeated the process over and over. The
sweat ran down my brow and my arms began to ache, but I did not care. My focus now was on one thing. I would save the remaining strawberries.
As I finished turning over the last clod of dirt, my curious
son ran up to me and observed as I gently placed the old, dry strawberry plants
in a tray of water. “What are you going
to do with these?”, he asked. I explained to him that those were our strawberry
plants. “These?”, he exclaimed. “But these strawberry plants are dead,” he
said, as he turned one over in his hands.
I stopped working and showed him how to scrape the rhizome with his
fingernail, exposing the white flesh underneath the brown skin. “See?” I said,
“It’s alive.” He still looked
puzzled. “But not very much alive,” he
said. I thought for a moment, then
smiled and said, “Yes, but it is alive and that’s all that really matters. Sometimes, it only takes a spark of life to
start things growing again.” Finished with turning over the dirt in the
strawberry bed, my son and I walked back to the house, carrying the salvaged
plants with us, my son chattering about how he couldn’t wait for us to grow
strawberries again.
The same week that I tackled my long neglected strawberry
bed, the news broke about the widespread and deep reaching scandal in the
Catholic church in Pennsylvania. I read
the news stories and, like many others, was angered and disgusted by the level
and degree of conceit, betrayal and cowardice that has been practiced by so
many leaders of our church for most of my lifetime. I found myself feeling thankful that my
children are still young, and that I do not have to explain to them just yet
the intricacies and sordid details that are making headlines today. For now, my children are very proud to be
Catholic and love their faith, and I want more than anything for that to never
change. However, scandals like these are just the kind of thing that could
jeopardize that.
And even though they are young now, and ignorant of such
things, I know that in time, they will be confronted with the task of defending
their faith from those who will choose to use these scandals to attack. Just as the bad actors of the Crusades are
still used as a means to attack the Catholic church 900 years later, these kinds
of scandals will never be forgotten, and will provide fodder for those wishing
to destroy the church and her faithful for generations to come. It will not be easy for my children to defend
a church marred by such ugliness, and I worry that they will have their own
personal crisis of faith, just as I did many years ago.
Unfortunately, it seems to be a common trend these days,
almost a right-of-passage, for those of us who are part of the post-Vatican II
generation to struggle with our faith and our church once we reach adulthood.
Unlike our parents or grandparents, we have had to grow up in a church filled
with conflicting messages and dying traditions. As I came of age, I learned
that the priest who baptized me left the priesthood to marry, the priest who
gave me my First Holy Communion did the same, the parish priest who I admired
for a decade during my formative adolescent years turned out to not be the man
we thought he was and was caught in the 2002 scandals, and the charismatic
priest who mentored me and so many other students during our college years left
the priesthood a year after I graduated. By the time I’d reached the age of 23,
I looked around at the church I’d grown up in and the priests I’d always known
and saw no shepherd that I wanted to follow. And sadly, my story is not so uncommon
among my generation. So, to read about scandals that happened during this same
time period, while disheartening, is not surprising to me. The weeds have been
growing for a long time.
But amongst the weeds, there are still strawberry plants. There are the priests and bishops who love
the church and show it by speaking the truth and reflecting it in the way they
say mass, approach the sacraments, and encourage the faithful. They do not
muddy the waters nor sit on the fence.
It was a priest like that who led me back from my own personal crisis of
faith, simply by teaching the truths of the Catholic church and the meaning
behind them, and demonstrating with his actions his great love for the
priesthood.
I walked away from my garden that week carrying a tray full
of strawberry plants that had been overtaken by weeds and deprived of the
sunshine and rainfall and nutrients that they had needed to thrive. In short,
they were slowly dying due to my neglect. Their potential to produce beautiful,
sweet fruit had been diminished by my apathy and delay. And looking at them, I realized that while
strawberries may not have mattered so much to me, I’d robbed my children of one
of their little joys in life i.e., picking and eating strawberries fresh from
the garden while the juice dribbled down their chin.
In the end, I decided
not to replant those old strawberries that I’d saved from the bed, though they
still had life within them. Instead, I will plant them on the edge of the
garden, where they may still bear fruit, but I will not depend on them. For the most part, they have run their course. Rather, after uprooting the weeds and
removing as many of their roots as possible, I decided to replenish the soil of
the bed and start with new, young plants.
It will be another year before they bear fruit, but with a renewed
commitment to tending them, I am hopeful that my children will soon be looking again
at a harvest of sweet berries rather than a patch of weeds.
It is a similar hope that I have for my children as they
grow in faith. That, when confronted with a garden that appears to be overtaken
by weeds, rather than giving up and walking away, they will search amongst those
weeds for the strawberries and anything else worth saving. Perhaps they will
remember that even if what once thrived now appears lifeless, that with a
little care, it only takes a spark to get it growing again. I pray the same
will happen during their lifetime within our church.
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